If I put salt in the cake I’m baking instead of sugar, it will most probably be seen as an error. But if we consider this error instead as a much needed lesson for paying attention, is it really an error after all, or rather something good because I’ll make sure to read labels more carefully next time? What if the people to whom I serve the cake never find out I was supposed to put sugar and thought I deliberately baked a salty cake for dinner?
The way I see it, mistakes are when you do something you weren’t supposed to do, but doesn’t it not matter anyways since you did what you did and you can’t undo it? It’s the way it happened, the mistake happened because it did. We could go on about how we were supposed to do something (or not) but that something wasn’t done in that expected way anyways.
However, if we view that mistake with regret, shame, or any other negative feelings of the like, we’d want to keep it in mind so as to not repeat it again. We could take operant conditioning as an example. B.F. Skinner believed that consequence ensuing behavior was what would influence that behavior and increase its probability of happening or not happening again. Behavior that results in a negative outcome we most commonly term as mistake, and so we try our best not to repeat it. But I want to know how these “mistakes” came into our minds in the first place, and why it carries a negative connotation.
When and how is something really considered a mistake? Is there anything such as an objective mistake (I believe mistakes are born through human perspectives but I’ll be glad to hear otherwise)? Would it be considered futile to brood over something that didn’t happen?