For anyone who might be able to use it or just want to object, I’ll share my foolish but sincere vision-blindness of the situation.
I suggest —ever tentatively — that there are two basic ontological comportments/frames.
First I present or picture the PICTURE FRAME.
The dominant frame, suggested by the metaphor of “frame” itself, is that consciousness or experience gives us some kind of untrustworthy picture of the world that is not the world itself. This picture is between us and the world. Because it is between us, we are “inside” and the world is “outside.”
Typically truth is understood as the accuracy of our picture of the world. Somehow the picture can be more “like” the world than other pictures.
In this framework, the goal of philosophical speech is to express an accurate picture. True speech is accurate picturing.
Usually the meaning of words is understood as picturing “content.” The surface of the word, its material, is a vessel. Inside this vessel is “meaning stuff” that pictures. The picture is even made of meaning that is not the world itself. The world is not meaning. It is pictured by the meaning of true speech. The speech is made true by the world agreeing with the meaning of the speech. The meaning of the speech is a picture of the world that may be false. The picture may not match the world.
There is plenty of freedom within this framework. Some may grant that the goal is accurate picturing but also insist that we can never check for a match and be sure. So we settle for what we hope is an approximately correct picture, usually because it is good enough so far for practical life.
Some may allow for a perfect picture through insight into a fixed atemporal structure. In this case, the fixed essence of the world can be perfectly pictured. In this case, the fixed eternal essence, but only this essence, is in the world itself and the picture at the same time. This may be expressed spiritually or in terms of mathematical physics or perhaps in terms of neo-Darwinism, etc.
The objects that we experience are of course only pictures of the true objects.
Between us as subjects there are of course always pictures.
The you that I experience is only a picture of you and not the true you.
Even if I forget this in practical life, it is important to remember it when I am serious about picturing the world accurately. I may justify my forgetting the picture in ordinary life by suggesting that the picture is surprisingly accurate anyway, for this or that reason.
In this framework accurate picturing is sacred. Theory is seeing, and ideal seeing is the seeing of a picture that is true — that is like the world and yet other than the world.
To forget the gap between the picture and the world is to fall into naivety. It is to falsely picture the world by leaving out the picture between us and the world.
For truth to be what we want it to be, there is only one reality and then a picture of that reality for every subject. One reality, many pictures. Between each subject and reality a picture that is just for that subject.
For some within the picture frame, time and space are only in the picture. Or at least we can’t say whether time and space are in the reality that is pictured in terms of time and space.
For most but not all in this frame, reality is OK with not being pictured at all. Pictures of reality happen perhaps when a certain collection of stuff in reality takes a particular shape. Pictures of reality can vanish and reality is not changed. All pictures can go away and reality remains as it was. The pictures need reality but reality does not need the pictures.