Post 20, Why Are We Here?
If the testimony suggests that we survive death, then another question naturally arises. Why are we here?
This question can’t be answered in exactly the same way as the core survival argument. The survival argument rests heavily on anchored testimony, i.e., reports tied to objective details, timing, corroboration, and the absence of ordinary access. The question of why we’re here depends more on the larger pattern of testimony, especially life reviews, encounters, transformations, and what experiencers say they came to understand.
Still, the pattern is hard to ignore.
Many NDEs suggest that earthly life has a purpose. That purpose doesn’t seem to be primarily doctrinal, institutional, or religious in the narrow sense. Again and again, the emphasis falls on love, relationship, growth, moral understanding, and the effects our choices have on others.
The life review is especially important here. Experiencers often report seeing their lives not merely as a sequence of events, but through the effects those events had on others. They come to understand how a word, action, kindness, cruelty, neglect, or act of love affected another person. The point isn’t about punishment or eternal damnation. It appears to be understanding, i.e., what did we learn from the experience.
That matters because it suggests that earthly life is morally serious. Our choices matter. How we treat others matters. The small things matter. In fact, it’s mostly about the small things. A gesture, a word, a failure to help, an act of compassion, all of it seems to carry more significance than we usually recognize from within ordinary life.
This also gives suffering a different context, though not an easy one. I don’t think NDE testimony lets us give glib answers to suffering, tragedy, disability, injustice, or loss. Those are serious realities, and any account that explains them too quickly should be treated with suspicion. But the testimony often suggests that suffering is not the final meaning of a life. It may be taken up into growth, compassion, understanding, or a larger purpose that isn’t visible from within the event itself.
There is also a recurring suggestion that, at the deepest level, we ultimately cannot be harmed. That doesn’t mean earthly suffering is unreal or trivial. Bodies can be injured. Lives can be broken. People can be traumatized, bereaved, and wounded in terrible ways. But if the testimony is right, those harms don’t reach the deepest level of what we are. They belong to embodied life, and they matter, but they aren’t final. The deeper self survives them.
There is also a recurring suggestion that earthly life is a place of learning, growth, and moral testing. I don’t mean “testing” in the sense of a cruel exam imposed from outside. I mean that embodied life places us under conditions where choices become real, where love can be difficult, where courage and compassion have weight, and where growth occurs through limitation.
This may also explain why embodied life matters. If the afterlife is marked by expanded awareness, love, recognition, and a deeper sense of reality, then certain lessons may not be available there in the same way. We may learn something here that can only be learned under conditions of limitation, uncertainty, separation, vulnerability, and consequence. It is one thing to know that love matters when one is surrounded by love. It is another thing to learn love when it is difficult, costly, hidden, or resisted. Earthly life may contribute to understanding precisely because it places us under conditions where our choices have weight.
This connects with agency. The testimony suggests that agency is real, but agency doesn’t mean unlimited freedom. Life may contain both freedom and structure, i.e., real choices within conditions, constraints, and purposes we don’t fully understand. We’re born into bodies, families, histories, cultures, illnesses, limitations, opportunities, and circumstances that aren’t chosen from within earthly life. Yet within those conditions, our choices still matter.
Some testimony goes further and suggests pre-existence, choosing to come here, and even planning aspects of earthly life before birth. I wouldn’t state every version of that claim with the same degree of certainty as the core survival argument. But it appears often enough in the testimony that it shouldn’t be dismissed as a stray detail. It may be part of the larger picture, viz., that earthly life isn’t accidental, but entered into for growth, learning, love, and development.
That also fits the relation to time. If the deeper self has existed before this life, and if this life is only a brief embodied interval within a much larger existence, then earthly life may feel total from inside the body while being only one episode from the standpoint of the larger self. From here, this life feels like the whole story. From the wider standpoint suggested by many NDEs, it may be more like a flash by comparison.
So the answer to “Why are we here?” may be something like this. We’re here to learn, to love, to choose, to grow, to understand the effects of our lives on others, and to become more fully aware of what we are. That isn’t a complete theory. It doesn’t answer every question about suffering, injustice, tragedy, or why particular lives unfold as they do.
But the larger pattern of NDE testimony does suggest that earthly life isn’t random or meaningless. It suggests that this life is a temporary but serious episode in a larger existence, one in which love, agency, relationship, growth, and moral understanding matter more than we usually see from within the body.